“Children are quickly drawn in with clever games, projects and activities that get the moving experience started down a positive road that builds confidence all the way. From old to new, each part of the journey becomes special and chronicled forever in a unique keepsake.” Sally Smith, Tutor/Director, Unlocking Potential LLC, Fairhope, Alabama
“One of my Military Counselors…went through them very quickly, so they seem to be popular!”
“The journal is packed with activities and games to encourage discussion and reflection during family moves. Activities cover every subject your children might have concerns about. Perfect for school age kids but can be used for younger ones with the help of a parent. A wonderful gift idea and an incredible value for the content.” A reviewer, in the military – moved 13 times! 05/04/2007 (from Barnes & Noble online).
“Thanks so much for sharing the Moving Activity Journal with us. We think it’s awesome. Even after our move, my daughter gets hers out every so often and adds more to it. I thought that was a great testimony to its appeal! It really is a neat thing for kids to have to do while a move is happening. And, I think it will be really cool for them to look back on. It’s just a great idea all around!” Mother of 2, Stillwater, Minnesota
Moving with children is made easier with this all-in-one Scrapbook, Journal, and Activity Book that guides kids through a family relocation and entertains them during the busy time of planning a move.
Complete with over 100 encouraging and interactive activities, young movers prepare for their move through journaling, arts and crafts, games, and puzzles. Each activity covers specific moving topics in a fun and creative way.
This Activity Journal facilitates transition through creating, playing, planning, learning, helping, working together, sharing feelings, and most importantly, having fun.
Build your child’s confidence by positively addressing everything from remembering your home, schools, friends, and community to learning about the new ones you’ll be moving to. Other activities creatively cover topics such as moving pets, packing, preparing for moving day, collecting addresses, staying in touch with old friends, making connections, safety, settling into your new community, and more.
This book is filled with moving tips and includes answers to games and puzzles. The individualized format makes the activity journal easily adaptable to all ages, from pre-readers to teens. Moving is a unique opportunity to draw upon children’s natural curiosity to encourage positive skills for getting through big changes.
Relocating a family is a monumental task.
Even the most organized of parents will likely feel the stress and pressure of staying on top of every-day life while moving. As a parent, I have experienced the reality that, during times of increased stress and transition, my children need me even more than usual, yet I have less time and energy available.
Undoubtedly, moving is a huge distraction, and kids can get a little lost in the shuffle. My Moving Activity Journal can help!
Moving is also a unique opportunity for children to experience new and incredibly valuable life skills.
“With the proper attention from parents , moving can be a positive growth experience for children, leading to increased self-confidence and improved interpersonal skills.”
For example, when a family in transition finds ways to make each person a part of the process, skills such as team work, cooperation, and responsibility are learned. When change feels scary, a successful attitude can be fostered by focusing on new opportunities. A child that is anxious can learn healthy ways of processing mixed emotions, such as scrapbooking, journaling, and organizing information for staying in touch. And most importantly, during times of stress, keeping a big-picture perspective, and remembering to have fun, are invaluable.
So how does a parent engaged in the marathon of moving simultaneously take advantage of the many opportunities for growth while having fun?
1. Find ways to involve each child in the move, with simple and creative tasks that give a sense of control.
For example, kids can make cards to notify family and friends of their change of address, can decorate a book for recording contact information needed to stay in touch, and can research new parks and libraries to visit after moving. When packing, kids can label boxes, scrunch newspaper, and tape boxes. Making young movers an important part of the process will help them feel more important and secure at a very busy time.
2. Use activities to entertain and engage young movers and to stimulate conversation.
For example, drawing pictures related to the move, and then asking questions about the picture, will encourage conversation. Ask questions and make lists, such as a list of places to visit one last time before moving, paired with a list of similar new places to explore after moving. Encourage kids to make a scrapbook of friends, activities, and favorite places, with a matching scrapbook of clippings and computer printouts of new activities and places awaiting them near their new address. Help kids collect the contact information for every friend that they want to stay connected with. These activities and conversations will reduce moving anxiety.
3. Get excited about the future!
Provide children with materials about the place where you are moving, such as maps, Chamber of Commerce brochures, and mailings sent by organizations offering interesting activities and hobbies. Encourage the older child to research and find these materials on his or her own. Collecting information will turn the unknown into something to look forward to, easing the grief of leaving friends and familiar places behind. Just imagine how exciting driving into your new town will be if your child has already picked a new restaurant to try, or a new park to visit! And just imagine how empowered your child will be if he or she remembers helpful information after the move, such as where to get an oil change, or find pet supplies, or go to the movies.
4. Start your new life before you move.
Reach out to schools, teams, and clubs as soon as possible, and let your child interview their new teacher, coach, or principal on the phone. Get references for potential pen-pals with similar interests, and encourage kids to exchange letters or e- mails. Find out if your friends, family, and co-workers know people in the area where you are moving who might tell you about their favorite family-friendly places and local “hot-spots.” Involve the kids in these conversations as much as possible. And if possible, take a trip in advance of moving to meet people and visit places. Both change and “good-byes” are much easier when you have things to look forward to!
5. Keep it simple!
In all matters and activities, remember to keep it as simple as it needs to be. A little artist may be entertained for hours by drawing custom pictures on fifty change of address cards. But a different child may instead enjoy being handed a stack of printed labels to stick on blank postcards. A teen may enjoy taking photos for customizing address cards online, knowing their creation will be mailed to everyone in the greater family circle. Each parent knows the child best, and matching the child’s interests with helpful moving tasks is a win-win for all involved!
Moving should be an opportunity to thrive, not something to survive.
For those families who want more ideas and help, I created an all-in-one resource embodying the above five tips: ‘My Moving Activity Journal: Activities, Games, Crafts, Puzzles, Scrapbooking, Journaling, and Poems for Kids on the Move! 2nd Ed.’ by Nicole L.V. Jaeger (ISBN 978-0-9796547-0-1). Based upon my own moving experience, research, and passion for children, this book contains over 100 encouraging and interactive activities that address all aspects of moving, including remembering friends, moving pets, packing, staying in touch, making new connections, safety, settling in, and more. Most importantly, each activity fosters skills and communication, while remaining positive, entertaining, and fun!